Have you ever uttered the phrase, “The rich get richer and the poor get poorer”?
Well, congrats. You have a money block, and probably more than one.
Here’s how to know if you have more money blocks hiding in the shadows and stealing your abundance:
- No matter how hard you work, you never have enough money to pay bills
- You can make all the money you want, but you can’t seem to keep it or save it
- Moral objections, like “money is the root of all evil,” have been passed onto you by parents and elders
So I thought I’d give you three fast ways to break through your money blocks, even if you’ve tried and failed before.
Here goes:
1. No matter how hard you work, you never have enough money to pay bills. This is a scarcity complex telling you over and over and over again that you “don’t have.” A few more phrases come to mind when we talk about scarcity -
“I can’t, I’m broke”
“I don’t have the money”
“I don’t have enough to cover it”
“I can’t afford…”
This is a mindset issue either learned in this life, or in a past life. Often people who were raised by Depression Era folks, or survived it themselves, knew the value of preserving and conserving every resource they could lay their hands on because times were so uncertain, they didn’t know when the circumstances would change.
Pass that mentality down a few generations, where circumstances, even at their worst, are not quite as bad as the Great Depression, and we wind up with some serious mental blocks toward having anything to spare - money included.
The scarcity fix:
First, become aware of what you say, even to yourself, about money. Monitor every single turn of phrase and every word when it comes to finances. Bringing awareness to the issue will create a new pattern in your brain, and with a little practice and some time, you’ll eliminate scarcity thinking for good.
Fix it faster:
Find the root of where the scarcity problem started and heal it there. What caused this type of thinking? Why is the pattern continuing to play out? The Curiosity Package can help you find the first event that caused this money block by looking at your past lives for answers, healing it at the root, and eliminating scarcity thinking from your life for good. We can talkmore about that here.
2. You can make all the money you want, but you can’t seem to keep it or save it. This is a “deservability” issue, rooted firmly in unworthiness. You feel worthy enough to have the basic necessities because you work for them, but don’t feel good enough to deserve to take a vacation or time off work. Any money you do manage to save up soon goes right out the door to some emergency - your car breaks down or the fridge stops working.
This problem is trickier to resolve; on one hand, trading your effort for money works, but on the other hand you can never seem to get ahead. It’s like being perpetually stuck in a neutral cycle. Deservability is a matter of self-worth. On some level, you don’t feel like you deserve to have anything more than what’s needed to survive.
This pattern usually begins with social conditioning and restriction as a child. “You can’t have a toy every time we go to the store.”
“No candy before dinner.”
“You can’t go play with your friends until all your homework is finished.”
While that looks like good, typical parenting, it teaches you bargaining - which you are doing with yourself with every penny you earn. It’s a “you can’t go on vacation until that credit card is paid off” mentality, because “that’s not the way things work.” ← That’s social conditioning and bargaining.
On a deeper level, it’s the lack of self-worth causing the money block:: “You don’t deserve playtime until you’ve taken care of your responsibilities.”
The deservability fix:
Take a journal and start taking notes about how you’re choosing to spend or save your money. “Choose” is the important word. When you were a child, you didn’t have a choice - you did what your parents said to do. As an adult, you get to make the choices for yourself. YOU are in control this time around. Writing down what you choose puts you back in the driver’s seat so you can kick that money block behind you.
Faster fix:
Find out what past lifetimes you’ve lived where you were financially restricted, or choices were restricted under someone’s authority. Those same feelings, when they’re not dealt with properly, travel from lifetime to lifetime with us and get stored in the body to eventually come out as symptoms - AKA, money blocks. The Curiosity Package is a great place to start exploring those feelings so you can break out of that neutral cycle and do what you want with your money. Schedule a time to chat about The Curiosity Package here.
3. Moral objections, like “money is the root of all evil,” have been passed onto you by parents and elders. If you’re like most people, it’s not uncommon to hear a parent or grandparent in your head guide you through some difficult times with their words of wisdom. You’ve probably heard phrases over and over again concerning money and the lack of it. Or the evil of it. Or how people with money are bad, thieves, politicians, dirty, rotten, scoundrels, etc.
Our elders meant well with their life lessons and phrasing - they did. But when you place morals on metal coins and paper, they’re no longer just coins and paper. They’re “good” or “bad” coins and paper. And therefore, anyone who has the “bad” type of money is also a bad person. It’s rare to have a moral phrasing about money being somehow “good''. And that shapes your belief system.
So if you believe money, and therefore everyone who has it, is “bad” - you’ll avoid money like the plague. And as the Universe would have it - money avoids you, too.
This negative moral definition of paper and metal takes away its true capacity as a tool to get the stuff you want to have. But until money is simply just a neutral tool, those words and phrases will keep it away from you.
The moral-objection fix:
Repeat the scarcity fix first. Then, get a coin or a dollar bill, and some paper and pen out. I want you to really study money. Write down all its characteristics, how it smells, how it feels in your hand. Write down what you’d like to do with it. Take some time with this - really get into the details. Once you’re finished, go back and read your list. Did you write down anything “bad” about it? If you did, you just found another money block. If all your descriptions were neutral or positive, you just made money into what it is - a tool. Congrats! You just found out your real beliefs about money.
The faster fix:
See how you behaved with money in your past lives. Were you rich or poor? How did you treat others because of your money or lack of? Your past beliefs define how you handle your finances now, just as much as the beliefs you’ve learned in this lifetime.
When you clear the old karmic patterns out - you fix your money blocks far easier than trying to pick them apart one at a time. Even better, you could be well on your way to clearing money blocks and having more abundance this week when you schedule a free Discovery Session with me.
Click here to schedule a free Discovery Session, where we’ll talk about
Your biggest issues with money and how you can get past them
How diving into your past lives can help you clear old karma and money blocks so you can get a handle on your finances faster
Whether past life exploration is appropriate for you
If I can help, we’ll talk more about The Curiosity Package and how it will help you clear out all that old baggage so you can stop worrying about money and whether the Universe is conspiring against you.
Talk soon,
xx Crysta
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