Have I Been Here Before?
- Crysta Foster

- Jan 22
- 3 min read
Sometimes the question doesn’t come with a story.
It comes quietly.
You don’t remember anything specific. You don’t have images or dreams. You’re not chasing answers.
You just have a steady, subtle feeling:
Have I been here before?
This Question Usually Starts With Familiarity
Most people don’t ask this question after one strange moment.
They ask it after noticing:
Repeating situations
Emotional reactions that feel older than the moment
A sense of knowing without explanation
Feeling comfortable or unsettled in ways they can’t quite explain
It’s not dramatic. It’s not constant. It’s just persistent enough to wonder about.
Familiarity Doesn’t Mean Memory
One of the biggest misunderstandings around this question is assuming familiarity must come from memory.
It doesn’t.
Even in this life, you can feel familiar with something without remembering when you learned it.
Your system recognizes patterns long before your mind explains them.
So when something feels familiar, it doesn’t mean you’re remembering a past scene. It means your body, emotions, or instincts recognize something.
That recognition can come from many places.
Why This Feeling Can Be Hard to Shake
People often try to dismiss the feeling.
They tell themselves:
“I’m overthinking.”
“Everyone feels this sometimes.”
“It doesn’t mean anything.”
But when the feeling keeps returning, it’s usually because something in you wants to be acknowledged — not explained away.
The question isn’t demanding an answer. It’s asking for understanding.
Where Past Lives Fit In (And Where They Don’t)
For some people, past lives provide a framework that helps this feeling make sense.
For others, they don’t.
You don’t need to decide which one is true to respect the experience.
Past lives are one possible explanation — not a requirement and not a conclusion.
The mistake is thinking you have to believe something for the feeling to be valid.
You’re Not Supposed to Figure This Out All at Once
A lot of people feel pressure to interpret this question quickly.
They want to know:
What it means
Where it came from
What they’re supposed to do with it
But most insight doesn’t arrive through force.
It arrives through noticing patterns, reflecting gently, and letting understanding unfold over time.
A More Grounded Way to Hold the Question
Instead of asking: “Have I been here before?”
Try asking:
“What feels familiar right now?”
“What keeps repeating in my life?”
“What am I responding to instinctively?”
Those questions tend to lead somewhere useful — whether past lives are involved or not.
If This Question Keeps Coming Back
If you keep wondering whether you’ve been here before, it usually means you’re paying attention to yourself rather than ignoring subtle signals.
You don’t need proof. You don’t need memories. You don’t need a belief system.
You just need a framework that helps the experience make sense.
Two Ways to Go Deeper (Your Choice)
Want the full explanation? If you’d like a clear, grounded explanation of how past lives work, why familiarity shows up without memory, and how people explore this safely, you can read the in-depth article here: → Do I Have Past Lives? How to Know If You’ve Lived Before
Prefer practical tools instead? If you’d rather skip the theory and start with something hands-on, the Ultimate Guide to Knowing Your Past Lives walks you through the three main ways people access past life memories — and how to tell the difference between imagination and real recall. → Get the Free Ultimate Guide



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