What Is My Soul?
- Crysta Foster

- Jan 23
- 3 min read
The word soul gets used a lot.
Sometimes it’s religious. Sometimes it’s poetic. Sometimes it’s vague enough to mean everything and nothing at the same time.
So it’s reasonable to ask:
What is my soul — really?
The Soul Is the Energy That Animates You
At its most basic level, your soul is your personal life force.
It’s the spark that animates your body. The energy that gives you intention, awareness, and choice.
Without it, your body could still function — breathe, move, react — but it would be on autopilot.
There would be no you behind the actions.
The soul is what makes you present instead of mechanical.
Your Soul Is Not Your Personality
This is an important distinction.
Your personality is shaped by:
upbringing
culture
trauma
conditioning
learned behavior
Your soul exists underneath all of that.
It’s the part of you that:
feels familiar to yourself
doesn’t disappear when roles change
remains consistent across circumstances
When people say “this feels like me,” they’re usually describing alignment with their soul — not their personality.
The Soul Carries Memory and Emotion
Your soul holds memory — but not in the way we usually think about memory.
It doesn’t store stories or timelines the way the brain does.
It carries:
emotional patterns
familiarity
resonance
unfinished experiences
This includes memory from:
this life
past lives
and what you might think of as future lives
All of that exists simultaneously, even though we experience it linearly.
Individual, But Not Isolated
Your soul is individual — but it isn’t separate.
Think of it as a fragment of a larger whole.
Souls tend to move in groups or families, often overseen or supported by guides — ancestors, helpers, or beings who have already completed their own cycles of learning.
This is where the idea of “we are all one” comes from.
We originate from the same source, but we don’t all serve the same function at the same time.
Your Soul Has Preferences and Intent
Your soul isn’t passive.
It has preferences based on familiarity and purpose.
Before incarnating, it chooses:
the general conditions of a life
the kinds of experiences it wants to have
the emotional lessons it intends to explore
Some details — like appearance or gender — can be preferences, but they’re secondary. The primary driver is always experience.
Your soul chooses what will help it evolve emotionally, not what will make life easiest.
The Soul Evolves Through Experience
Souls evolve by creating experiences — and then living through them.
You don’t evolve by avoiding difficulty. You evolve by engaging with it consciously.
Once a soul completes certain objectives, it may:
reincarnate again with new intentions
move on to serve as a guide or helper
or evolve into a different role entirely
Earth is one training ground — not the only one — but it’s focused on the human experience specifically.
You Don’t Need to Fully Understand Your Soul to Work With It
You don’t have to define your soul perfectly to live in alignment with it.
You notice it when:
something feels deeply right or deeply wrong
you act against your own values
you feel disconnected from yourself
or you recognize patterns that don’t start here
The soul communicates through feeling and resonance, not explanation.
A More Useful Question to Ask
Instead of asking: “What is my soul?”
Try asking:
“What feels true for me?”
“What experiences feel meaningful?”
“What patterns keep returning?”
Those answers bring you closer to your soul than any definition ever could.
Two Ways to Go Deeper (Your Choice)
Want the full explanation? If you’d like a clear, grounded explanation of how souls work, how past lives fit into this picture, and how to explore this safely, you can read the in-depth article here: → Do I Have Past Lives? How to Know If You’ve Lived Before
Prefer practical tools instead? If you’d rather skip the theory and start with something hands-on, the Ultimate Guide to Knowing Your Past Lives walks you through the three main ways people access past life memories — and how to tell the difference between imagination and real recall. → Get the Free Ultimate Guide



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